ORDINARY??

You used to think that someone would come along and lay beside you right where they belong. But the other side of the mattress looks brand new. What's the point of holding onto what never gets used? Other than to sit and desire for something new. And I try not to worry, but you've got me terrified. I spent this year as a ghost and I'm not sure what I'm looking for. I spent this year as a ghost, and I'm not sure where home is anymore. I gave you my all and you didn't give anything. Now you don't have anything, and I don’t feel bad for you. You've screwed up ... but in your heart you know better. It’s hard to lose somebody. I spent a lot of time searching for reasons or answers...

...but you can't find what's not there...

ANALYSIS

ordinary world: Marlin and Coral live in the sea anemone with their 400 eggs. A shark came and ate Coral and all the eggs but one--Nemo. 
call: Nemo gets caught by the humans and Marlin has to get him back.
refusal of the call: The shark attack made Marlin paranoid and he's scared to swim out to sea but he does it to save Nemo
mentor: Dori is the mentor and she teaches Marlin how to relax, to be funny, and to find the humor in things.
the crossing: Marlin swims into open sea!!
tests: In the whale, Marlin gives Dori her own advice, and when she takes it everything works out
approach: when Marlin tells Dori to go away..
ordeal: when Marlin went back to help Dori
reward: The pelican helps Marlin get to Nemo
return with elixir: Marlin and Nemo live a normal, stress-free life